Hey Minty....do you need a plumber....for you to have pulled....it mustve come off the wall....lol.<img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' />

Are you sure its filled with oil !!!

All those who don't do any searches will probably not even notice that a saved search facility exists anyway......while it could be convenient for those who do wish to search. I can't really see any problem in introducing it, Steve.

Looking at it from both viewpoints - I joined the site for dating a year ago, realised that it wasn't as focussed on dating as I'd hoped, and cancelled my subscription. Then joined a "normal" dating site, and found the contrived matching system frustrating, intimidating and frankly just unpleasant!! Realising that Site Admin had it right all along I rejoined OD - I would love to meet soemone special but feel the chances would be higher by meeting like minded people in a relaxed group with no pressure - and if Mr Right appears that's fab, if he doesn't then hey, I've got a load of new friends anyway. It's a win-win situation <img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' /><img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' /><img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' />

Aaah Site Admin Of course we are only looking from our point of view and now you point it out I see your dilemma - I still prefer it as it is though! <img src='theme/emoticon_confused.png' /><img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' />

Ha ha. Looks like you've pulled Minty !!!!.

I've got to agree with the comments so far.This site is very very special, as it works for us on a lot of different levels.

Claudette has got it spot on. It would be great to see you on one of the meets again Steve.

Soz forgot the happy smileys <img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' /><img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' />

I think the site admin is doing great & the site seems to be all things to all men & women! The forum comments in themselves are entertaining, keep up the good work but if anyone has tweaks that will improve it even more then so much the better.

P.s. don't see the point of saved searches tho!!! Must be other more relevant facilities that can be added that would benefit us all <img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' />

Don't see any reason why the site can't endeavor to cater for both Outdoor Friendships & Dating..... Choice is a good thing & it gives one the option to change your mind on how you want to pursue things. We are adults afterall & capable of being honest about what we want or are looking for.... <img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' /><img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' /><img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' />

Darn. I was thinking of sneaking saved searches in the back door whilst no one was looking. I can see you're all too awake.<img src='theme/emoticon_unhappy.png' />

The reality is that loads of people join to date rather than meet up with the "wild bunch"<img src='theme/emoticon_wink.png' />, then move on. I feel I'm not meeting their needs. Feeling bad. Must try harder ... as my teachers always said.

Put that Gin down milv<img src='theme/emoticon_tongue.png' />
Well said Minty<img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' />

I'd be inclined to agree with the above. I've only just joined but it does appear to work well with plenty going on

Well metaphorically I mean! haha too much wine, I'm off to bed!<img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' />

I'm with you Minty <img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' />

Following my panicky rant on the saved searches thread, I have now calmed down enough to simply say "well said, minty!" <img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' /><img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' /><img src='theme/emoticon_smile.png' />

I know - Special needs!<img src='theme/emoticon_confused.png' /><img src='theme/emoticon_tongue.png' /><img src='theme/emoticon_evilgrin.png' />
As with the saved search site admin it would make it more like a dating site and I think the majority of us prefer it as it is. Why spoil something beautiful or as some would say why fix it if it ain't broke! <img src='theme/emoticon_grin.png' />

TMiW.....as you know ...you are special...Ive not had any "skip"..<img src='theme/emoticon_wink.png' />

Nope. Interesting idea though.<img src='theme/emoticon_wink.png' />

I was just doing some testing ...