Who's lookin' for Romance?

19/04/2013 20:33
by Former Site Admin

Reading the profiles it seems to me that the guys are mostly seeking that significant other, and the girls are mostly lookin' for buddies and a laff. This seems the complete opposite of my son and his friends in their teenage years. The girls want Romance and the guys want buddies and a laff. Does the world flip as life moves on? Am I right in thinking this?:~

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loops 19/04/2013 20:33

if i met someone on here and it did not work out then i am safe in the knowledge that i probably have not lost a friend. As long as i'm not treated badly or taken the pee out of then i can quite happily group socialise with an ex and his new partner

MadMag 19/04/2013 12:57

Who's looking for a romantic, windy partner I think.

Pear Drop (Sarah) 19/04/2013 12:56

I'm sure you can BG! Shame I'll miss Sharp Edge but looking forward to sleepwalking instead. Have a great weekend!
MD you're right, the Wall will be a nice relaxing stroll each day, with Minty on hand to massage our aching feet each evening ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ˜€

BustaGut (Grant) 19/04/2013 12:14

I'm sure we can come up with something Sarah!!! Nah, usually curry or beans MD :~:~

Morningdawn 19/04/2013 11:54

Could be too many galaxy bars BG ๐Ÿ˜€
I know what you mean Sarah I went on a walk a couple of weeks ago to Devils Kitchen, Hadrian's wall will be like a walk in the park after that ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

Pear Drop (Sarah) 19/04/2013 10:50

Working on the principle that nothing else you throw at me can ever be that bad again......๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

BustaGut (Grant) 19/04/2013 10:44

Sarah, I'm surprised you're still having anything to do with us after your 'gentle introduction' to OD outings !!๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰

BustaGut (Grant) 19/04/2013 10:43

That'll be the beans & beer MD ๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿ˜‹

Morningdawn 19/04/2013 10:31

I now follow my gut reaction, if it doesn't feel right I don't go there. May seem a little harsh but after past failed relationships I have learnt to know what I don't want.
Suggest you should just keep enjoying whatever life has to offer, you never know what the wind may blow your way ๐Ÿ™‚

Pear Drop (Sarah) 19/04/2013 10:29

And you don't necessarily have to lose the friendship even if the romance doesn't work out - true friendship will last if it's worth keeping ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚

Ally & Dave 19/04/2013 09:32

I would take the gamble too,if you find someone you click with give it a go.Life's short.You may lose the friendship if it doesn't work but that gamble is worth it if you meet that great person.๐Ÿ™‚

BustaGut (Grant) 19/04/2013 08:28

๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ I would have done Minty if it Hadn't been for the snoring !!!๐Ÿ˜‹

MadMag 19/04/2013 08:00

Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Ultreia (Jo & Alan) 19/04/2013 07:31

I like others joined the site as friendship only because I wanted something with friends that doesn't come complicated. I have seen some lovely romances on the site, that are great while they last but one or the other leaves when it doesn't work out. Do you take the risk if that special someone comes along on the site and risk a good friend?

Morningdawn 18/04/2013 23:37

Hi Claudette,I think we should be asking who is going to share with Minty on our Hadrian Wall week, we may need ear plugs ๐Ÿ˜€

The Mind is Willing 18/04/2013 23:12

Mmmmmmm say no more BG - no really say no more!! :~๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

BustaGut (Grant) 18/04/2013 23:05

No we're not MD....... we love you Minty you're a top chappy and I know we're going to have a jolly day if your names on the list ..... tho' to be fair, not sure I want to try sleeping with you again !!

Morningdawn 18/04/2013 22:30

Oh no Minty now the blokes are bullying you ๐Ÿ˜€

jw19 18/04/2013 22:29

๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ BG ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

mark301 18/04/2013 22:17

All interesting wot every one says.
Wot is the thing that is thete for every one.
Joining this site you can get best off all.
Out haven fun meating new friends and never nises
may cum across the soul mate..
๐Ÿ˜€

milvus 18/04/2013 21:24

Some great comments ๐Ÿ™‚

BustaGut (Grant) 18/04/2013 21:12

jw still lmfao at the thought of it...... the picture didn't do justice to the epic battle that surrounded it... can't believe he had any bloody energy left to snore !!!

jw19 18/04/2013 20:47

Minty I Think you'd better perfect the Duvet Cover before you venture into the cooking!!๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

BustaGut (Grant) 18/04/2013 18:39

Cheers Minty that's brill !!! can't wait for the next YHA gathering, I'm sure a few of us 'll chip in & bring the bacon if you're cooking !! ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

Noodles 18/04/2013 17:58

I like my eggs unfertilised ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚

The Mind is Willing 18/04/2013 17:22

What are you practising Minty - romance or cooking?!!! ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜ˆ:~

Pear Drop (Sarah) 18/04/2013 17:04

Lol minty, are you saying my cooking needs practice? who have you been talking to? ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

The Mind is Willing 18/04/2013 14:52

Site Admin we're all looking for romance (if we haven't already found it) but it isn't the only thing we have to offer. Maybe we're just more romantic and believe we'll get there in the end so it doesn't have to be rushed.

Pear Drop (Sarah) 18/04/2013 13:22

Crikey. Guys, I thought the 4 laughy faces at the end of my comment would convey the spirit of light hearted banter in which the remark was made! Sorry for any offence :~
Of course there are lots of good men out there and I would love to find a special one (though I've clearly blown my chances with you lot ๐Ÿ˜€), but I do think that friendship is an excellent basis for romance, and never wasted even if the romance doesn't happen ๐Ÿ™‚

Morningdawn 17/04/2013 23:24

Be careful girls what those boys offer you while out on a walk, I'm worried I may have tarnished my reputation, I had the four and three letter word with AD last week
(cake and tea) ๐Ÿ˜€

Scout 17/04/2013 23:06

I'd like to meet a man who knows words with more than four letters in - if they can do multi-syllabic words that would be even better๐Ÿ˜€

Rick and Viv's Adventures 17/04/2013 22:38

Lol BG...๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

BustaGut (Grant) 17/04/2013 22:36

AR would that be 'cake' rather than 'tea'.....๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿ˜€

Rick and Viv's Adventures 17/04/2013 22:35

They certainly are MD๐Ÿ™‚ maybe you teach them some manners.๐Ÿ˜‹

Thanks jw19๐Ÿ™‚

jw19 17/04/2013 22:24

Nice one AR, "Tar and Brush" spring to mind.:~

Morningdawn 17/04/2013 22:13

Are the girls being mean and teasing you AR and you being such a gent ๐Ÿ˜€

Rick and Viv's Adventures 17/04/2013 22:04

You girls are bad..๐Ÿ˜‹ but 'Love' is the word I was refering to.๐Ÿ™‚

Tinks 17/04/2013 22:00

Haha Bimble and Madmag ๐Ÿ˜€

MadMag 17/04/2013 21:57

Bimble, your mind is as bad as mine, he may have meant 'Love'

MadMag 17/04/2013 21:54

Ha ha ha

Rick and Viv's Adventures 17/04/2013 21:47

Milvus, that comment is as bad as Sarah's...๐Ÿ˜‹ lol.๐Ÿ™‚ Not all of us guys think of the 3 letter word, some of us are after the 4 letter word.๐Ÿ™‚

BustaGut (Grant) 17/04/2013 21:46

Oh Milvus that's harsh..... ๐Ÿ˜‹

milvus 17/04/2013 21:40

My skin looks too old - can I change it??? ๐Ÿ™‚

Scout 17/04/2013 21:38

I receive adverts from "Rori Raye" telling me how to catch my my man [does this mean that I should indicate the size of the one that got away???] but the essence of the adverts are that unless you like yourself and are confident in your own skin you will never really find the right relationship. Seemed like pretty good advice

jw19 17/04/2013 21:18

Well said Ally, nice and clear with no sexist comments, like it.๐Ÿ™‚

milvus 17/04/2013 21:17

I think you'll find a man's definition of 'romance' different to a woman's - they think its a three letter word!

Ally & Dave 17/04/2013 21:05

This sight is great as it caters for everyone,whether it be friendship or dating.Each to there own,as long as you are honest with your intentions no one gets hurt and everyone has a nice time.There are good and bad men and women ๐Ÿ™‚

Rick and Viv's Adventures 17/04/2013 20:14

I'm going to stick my neck out and say yes, I am looking for romance thats the reason I joined this site and because it bonds me to what I enjoy most the great outdoors.๐Ÿ™‚ So far the ladies that I have met have been great, very kind and understanding and a good fun to be with and look forward meeting some of them again soon and not forgetting those I've still yet to meet.๐Ÿ™‚
Oh and Sarah that comment you made thats not going to get you anywhere with the guys is it..๐Ÿ˜‹ lol...๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

jw19 17/04/2013 19:14

"SOME" people.

TC 17/04/2013 15:32

Interesting JW19. Cop out? What do you mean (TC: outdoor friendships only ๐Ÿ˜‰)

TC 17/04/2013 15:31

Interesting JW19. Cop out? What do you mean (TC: outdoor friendships only ๐Ÿ˜‰)

jw19 17/04/2013 15:21

You must have read my mind site admin, Outdoor friendships seems like a cop out to me for SOME people to avoid attention. Sarah that's a shocking comment.

Pear Drop (Sarah) 17/04/2013 13:44

๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

BustaGut (Grant) 17/04/2013 13:41

Sarah, how could you !!!!! ๐Ÿ˜‹

Little Miss Sunshine (Max) 17/04/2013 13:28

p.s. very lol! Sarah - think us ladies have finally cottoned on ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚

Little Miss Sunshine (Max) 17/04/2013 13:27

Under the universal law of attraction, the more you look for something, the harder it is to find. So it is said that it is best to live life like you already have romance in it as you attract more of what you already have. As Oscar Wilde put it 'to love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance' ๐Ÿ™‚ For me the best romance is with life itself.... to let life flow, have loads of fun & see what happens... Life is one big drama of an adventure with a whole lot of great folk taking part ๐Ÿ™‚

Pear Drop (Sarah) 17/04/2013 13:20

You could be right..... the guys are growing up and settling down just as the girls realise they never actually needed them after all.... ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€