Life begins at 40...Do you agree?

06/10/2013 10:49
by AD Ally & Dave

My 40th year so far has been fab.Moved house and to a totally different area,got a new job,met a fantastic bloke and my life has totally changed and i couldn't be happier.

Anyone else's life totally changed when hitting 40?

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Blueray 06/10/2013 10:49

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Spring 19/09/2013 12:23

yep, a new life does begin with joining OD... Met a group of fun folk on my first event who put a big smile on my face....It hasnt gone away since!
I've met loads more lovely people, tried new things, seen new places. Also made some special friendships Thanks you lot!

Blue John 19/09/2013 08:03

A new life begins when you join OD, age is irrelevant but then I would say that wouldnt I? ๐Ÿ™‚

preggy47(Andy) 19/09/2013 08:03

Od is full of great people some iv met but hope to meet many more๐Ÿ˜€

colinjoseph 18/09/2013 23:52

Well,๐Ÿ˜‰ I suppose it did now you make me look back. I had applied for a post as a lecturer in 1980, and by 1983, when I was 40 the job had all settled down nicely. I really enjoyed giving my lectures, some to classes of 30 technical trainees, others to 12 trainee Studio Managers who were mainly women.๐Ÿ˜‹ Some to senior staff. There were lovely moments of amusing exchanges with the class, and I could occasionally get a round of applause for ad lib remarks. My employers recognised that I was dedicated to my work and the planning I put into each session. My colleagues had good working relationships.๐Ÿ™‚
The only thing is that I didn't realise it was the peak of my career at the time!๐Ÿ˜ฎ

preggy47(Andy) 18/09/2013 22:50

life begins whenever you allow it to let you live๐Ÿ˜€

Blueray 16/08/2013 21:17

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Ally & Dave 16/08/2013 17:33

Good for you Morningdawn.Its a fab site,lovely people.Enjoy!

Blueray 16/08/2013 17:21

That is so true SfaW and I'm the same Milvus.
Queue the weekend and let the fun begin ๐Ÿ˜€

milvus 16/08/2013 17:17

That's comforting SfaW cos I'm always doing stupid things, but not necessarily on purpose, now I don't have to provide excuses - bring on the fun!!!๐Ÿ˜€

'Summit for a Weekendaday' 16/08/2013 16:26

There was something on the radio today, wish I could nb it, but along the lines of 'your never to old to play', it's when you stop playing that you start to feel old. So playing could be anything from watching whatever makes you laugh on TV (Friends ๐Ÿ™‚), to well, just doing stupid things now and again, it's healthy ๐Ÿ™‚.

The Mind is Willing 15/08/2013 22:19

mark301 - double ๐Ÿ˜‹ ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜ˆ๐Ÿ˜ˆ

mark301 15/08/2013 22:14

tmiw

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The Mind is Willing 15/08/2013 22:12

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Morningdawn 15/08/2013 22:02

Ally, my New Years resolution was Make Something Happen, I did I joined OD, never looked back, thanks to all my new found friends ๐Ÿ™‚

The Mind is Willing 15/08/2013 21:55

Life begins when you let go and go with the flo!

As CD quoted "to enjoy the future you have to create it"...

Start by joining in and then strike out with your own invitation! ๐Ÿ˜€

mark301 15/08/2013 21:51

Ally try after 50
lol
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WBC 15/08/2013 00:04

Wish I could agree.

Ally & Dave 14/08/2013 19:11

Couldn't agree more CD

Carpe Diem! 14/08/2013 14:48

"to enjoy the future you have to create it"...
"this is your world, shape it!"....
"in the end it's not the years in your life that count, it's the life in those years" (A. Lincoln)...
"your real duty is to preserve your dream" )Amedeo Modigliani

..and let's always dance!!! ๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿ˜‹

Carpe Diem! 14/08/2013 14:41

I'm really glad you are having such a great time Ally - but not sure it's related to any particular age , just the wondrous and unknown twists of exciting ole' life ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚

Peregrina 14/08/2013 13:52

The 50's are great! However life begins when you decide to live your life to the full. Don't wait around waiting for things to happen, as the Nike advert says 'JUST DO IT'.

M G 11/07/2013 19:15

Rolling radiators and dry stone walls.....minty"s motto....๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

M G 06/07/2013 22:54

you forgot the "radiators ", buddy...๐Ÿ™‚

M G 05/07/2013 21:13

Being the old goat...my life began when I met the OD team.....never looked back ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚

Maria 04/07/2013 21:25

When it's my birthday and anyone asks me how old I am, I always say I'm another year younger. Your as young as you feel.

Terence ( Terry ) 30/06/2013 15:25

still loving being 50, life is like a box of chocolates, just dont eat them all at once.
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Ally & Dave 25/06/2013 17:55

Love that last quote,very true

'Summit for a Weekendaday' 25/06/2013 10:27

'Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass but dancing in the rain', I like quotes! and absolutely love walking on rainy days ๐Ÿ™‚

Springeralex 24/06/2013 06:47

this is encouraging i agree so much with what the other have said,its also a case of realising one has to be accountable for ones own happiness,not wait to be rescued,be true to oneself ,the key is to be oneself,be proud of your uniqueness rather than being unhappy trying to fit in,im loads happier since i said to the world,actually all i want to do is outdoorsey stuff,its what makes me tick ๐Ÿ™‚

Rick and Viv's Adventures 21/06/2013 00:08

I couldn't agree more LMS ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚

Little Miss Sunshine (Max) 20/06/2013 23:45

Life begins when you make a decision to stop existing & start really living ๐Ÿ˜€

jw19 20/06/2013 23:03

My life went to rat shit at 39, your life can change in an instant, but you've got to get out there and that's what this site is all about, her's to the future.๐Ÿ™‚

Ally & Dave 14/06/2013 12:57

This site has obviously done so much for so many people.Brilliant cheers site admin

MadMag 13/06/2013 13:14

Well I'm 60 and yet to grow up, after mountain climbing I'm now hooked on rock climbing, the higher the better.

Terence ( Terry ) 13/06/2013 06:32

Life began at 50 for me, and what a wonderful year it's been,
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Scout 12/06/2013 21:13

Im only 21 so I dont really relate to you guys at all but growing older doesnt sound as scary as I once thought ๐Ÿ™‚
Way to go Ally. ๐Ÿ˜€

Blue John 12/06/2013 20:23

I thought it would raise a few smiles, I have to say I've seen some great places travelling mainly in this country in the last 3-4 years, climbed some mountains again & captures some memories on my camera ๐Ÿ™‚

Bionic Man 12/06/2013 19:59

Fifty is the new 40๐Ÿ™‚ Forty is the new 30๐Ÿ™‚ but wow if your 20 your feel like 10!๐Ÿ™‚

Pear Drop (Sarah) 12/06/2013 19:52

๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€ Well BJ I could say that that isn't news to most of us, but last time I made a comment like that I was accused of being sexist......๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

Blue John 12/06/2013 19:04

According to the press yesterday men take until 43 to finally grow up whereas women typically mature much earlier at age 32! Maybe for us men life begins much later than 40 ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ˜‹๐Ÿ™‚

Ally & Dave 12/06/2013 09:29

Awwww its so nice that peoples life have changed for the better as the years have passed.Getting older doesn't meet growing up

Forever lost 12/06/2013 07:48

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Forever lost 12/06/2013 07:48

Lol i'll think about it i'm not sure everybody on here does !!!!

TC 11/06/2013 21:52

Don't wait for 40 or 50, it is here now ๐Ÿ˜€

Wiggy 11/06/2013 21:39

Yeah come on FL what's the poem? Most of us know you well enough now not to be offended lol
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My life began when I born & boy what a ride its been ๐Ÿ˜€ ๐Ÿ˜‹

Nigel 11/06/2013 21:20

Oh yes, definitely 50 for me, its the new 40, 30 or 20, its whatever you want it to be. But celebrate it and not just for one day, @ 50 you can have as many birthday parties as you want. ๐Ÿ˜€

Ladyeliza (Liz) 11/06/2013 19:42

Started at 50 for me too. Climbed my first mountain at 50 Scafell Pike, joined OD shortly after and met lots of lovely people and done lots of walks. Still waiting for that elusive new man too but enjoying life whilst waiting. ๐Ÿ™‚

Haydn 11/06/2013 19:04

Everything changed at 40 (well more precisely 39!)๐Ÿ™‚ For the better I might add ๐Ÿ˜‰ And it's continuing to change positively too ๐Ÿ™‚ Much prefer the person I've become to the younger model ๐Ÿ˜€

Mitch 11/06/2013 18:50

ok Forever lost you just put me on a horse without a saddle. What is the poem pleaseeeee ?

Forever lost 11/06/2013 18:32

Don't wish the years away Wiggy you be old and wrinkly before you know it lol that reminds me of that poem i know but i hadn't better say it because no doubt it'll offend somebody lol

The Mind is Willing 11/06/2013 18:32

Life begins when you're ready to let go of the past and jump into the future. Sarah's right - happy people do spread happiness and this site is full of them. Thanks to everyone who has helped me to laugh and enjoy the moment. I'm glad I can still be surprised and I can laugh at myself.

Wiggy 11/06/2013 17:26

Il look forward to 50 then John just a shame iv still got s few years yet! Lol
You are mad jo ha ha ๐Ÿ™‚

Ultreia (Jo & Alan) 11/06/2013 15:50

Hitting 50 changed my life. Joined OD, getting fit and meeting new friends. I have just been speaking to a 19 yr old who thinks she's old. I said how wonderful life is when your my age and I think she thought I was mad. ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

JW 11/06/2013 15:30

50s are good Wiggy, just as well really.
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Pear Drop (Sarah) 11/06/2013 13:54

Aw Ally your post made me smile, see happy people spread happiness ๐Ÿ™‚๐Ÿ™‚ you're not smug at all ๐Ÿ™‚
I was a bit delayed, took me til 41 and a half to change my life but i now have the new house and new job (and the huge new mortgage :~) - still waiting for the new man and the happiness but I'm certainly a lot stronger and more confident.
Life begins at 41 and a half doesn't have quite the same ring to it does it ๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€

Ally & Dave 11/06/2013 10:33

Dave M.It wast meant to be smug,just wondered if anyone else had had a total change of life after 40. Cheers Dave M anyway!

davem 11/06/2013 07:43

God, don't you just hate smug bloody women !!!!

Ha ha.....glad Lifes good for you pal....your toptotty and you deserve it.

Wiggy 10/06/2013 23:27

I'm hoping it starts at 50 Ally otherwise iv missed it but not given up ๐Ÿ™‚
Good for you though ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚

Rick and Viv's Adventures 10/06/2013 22:24

I certainly agree ๐Ÿ™‚ Joining OD has certainly changed my life, although not sure where I'll end up just yet but its certainly going in the right direction ๐Ÿ™‚

milvus 10/06/2013 22:10

That's great! ๐Ÿ™‚ I'm still waiting tho โ˜น